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Why you should read every social media’s terms and agreements

In early 2020, The Social Dilemma opened at Sundance. The film exposed interviews from former high-ranking employees of different social media companies and explored why everyone should read the terms and agreements when signing up for social media.

The interviews also outlined severe psychological and sociological problems that these companies consciously create.

Former employees shared their discontents with how social media platforms are designed to be as addictive as possible.

“There are only two industries that call their customers ‘users’: illegal drugs and software.”

Edward Tufte

And yet, when these employees told their bosses about their ethical concerns, they were completely ignored.


The attention economy

Psychologist and economist Herbert A. Simon suggested that a person’s attention is finite and incredibly valuable. But, with one billion active monthly users, Instagram has molded the possibilities of the attention economy.

“A wealth of information creates a poverty of attention.”

Herbert A. Simon, 2020

More entertainment and information are available at our fingertips than ever before. And, this makes the attention economy a highly competitive space.

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Basically all you see at concerts, nowadays. (Cred: NBCNews).

More than that, social media has been successful at persuading users to maximize their time online.


How your data gets exploited

When people swipe to the end of the Terms and Agreements page, they allow these platforms to data-mine their information. And many are not aware of this.

Such information is used to personalize notifications and advertisements. This not only generates revenue but, obsession within users. So, each feed will be structured differently to match personal social media habits.

Just think, how many times have you said something in conversation only to have it pop up on your feed minutes later?

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Social media platforms use this data to exploit human desires for connective validation. They use personalized notifications and feed-algorithms to deliver pleasure.

Social media has done incredible things for social justice, global connectivity, and education. However, as these companies recognized means to monetize their platforms, concern for the well-being of users was discarded.


Your data is the most valuable resource on earth – pay attention to the terms and agreements on social media

In fact, the information that seems personal is no more than a corporate strategy. It is also important to remember that we can’t equate reality with social media. We are nothing more than numbers to them. After all, since 2017, user data surpassed became the world’s most valuable resource.

Social media is relatively a new medium. They haven’t been around long enough to have extensive regulations. Yet, we have made them very wealthy and powerful. So, they may end up buying their ways through any sort of inhibitory regulation.

Remember when Facebook invaded the privacy of 87 million users? They used their data to help Cambridge Analytica – a company that claimed to have 5,000 data points on every American. Not only did they sold their users but also swayed multitudes of American voters.

After the Federal Trade Commission found them guilty they paid a mere $5bn fine and had some regulations imposed.

For reference, Facebook is valued at $279 billion. So, to imagine that this fine will force them to be moral is naive. Watch The Great Hack on Netflix to learn more about the Cambridge Analytica scandal.


Staying blind to parasocial relationships 

Celebrities and rising macro-influencers on social media have monetized themselves through parasocial relationships. These are one-sided relationships in which one party (the user) invests their interest into a second party (the celebrity or macro-influencer).

Such celebrities and macro-influencers operate in similar ways as these companies. Both make their advertisements seem as personal as possible. But, every time we watch a Kardashian on Instagram, it deepens the illusion of a relationship between the viewer and celebrity.

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These celebrities and macro-influencers falsley seem to be getting paid to be themselves. When in reality, they’re getting paid to push users to spend time and capital on brands they’ve partnered with.


Psychological and sociological consequences of not paying attention to social media terms and agreements

Because of the addictive nature of social media, the influencer’s presence can’t be ignored.

Social media accounts are nothing more than highlight reels of users’ lives. And it’s difficult to not compare yourself. More than ever, young people are internalizing insecurities formed through comparing themselves to others.

For example, the popularization of lip-fillers by macro-influencers like Kylie Jenner. The number of people to have gotten lip fillers since Kylie got hers is massive. To the point, that plastic surgeons even coined the phrase “The Kylie Jenner Effect” to describe the alarming number of people seeking to look like her.

And mental health has become an increasingly worrisome subject too. According to psychologists on The Social Dilemma, between 2011 and 2013 depression and anxiety were up 189% in preteens. This has a direct correlation to social media use.

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Further studies suggest that increased Instagram use associates with a greater tendency towards certain eating disorders. While celebrities and influencers are not to blame for these, the data emphasize how deeply young people may be affected by comparing themselves.


What can you do?

More than anything else, it’s vital that users remain mindful when using social media. These apps can offer a lot in terms of creative inspiration and entertainment. But, don’t forget that these platforms are structured in ways that keep your focus forever.

Netflix documentaries, such as The Social Dilemma, or The Great Hack, are important to learn from. They outline the deficits of such apps and how much stress they add to people’s lives.

I’m sure you’re well aware of the many problems that these documentaries share. But still, they serve as healthy reminders of social media’s deep flaws.

Quarantine has forced us to confined ourselves online. But don’t forget that the life that matters most is outside the internet.

Toxic lyricism: The Double-edged sword of hip hop

There is just something downright and undisputably captivating about a lyrically vulgar hip hop song. I mean a track so nasty with toxic lyricism that you curl up your nose and scrunch up your face while bobbin’ your head along to it.

That feeling of sheer invincibility on the track provides listeners and artists alike with a unique sense of power. Toxic lyricism reigns audiences in. But of course, it is a double-edged sword, because are these lyrics really what we want to spread to the masses and youth?

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Toxic chemicals, like anything toxic, have lasting effects (pexels)

Give-and-take mechanisms

The artist feels magnificence. Catching different breath pockets, coasting upon different stanzas while feeling untouchable and of a different elk.

The fans feel elated to hear their favorite artist continue to impress by walking all over the recording in a multifaceted manner.

This is the world provided to us through a mutual trust and affinity toward established artists. For any person, it is not easy to do the same things year after year. And continue to improve and reinvent themselves. 

Yet, successful artists manage to stay current and adapt their individual sound to the changing times surrounding them. Hence, new fans jump on board and original fans continue to tap in.


Toxic lyricism goes hard, but what are the lasting impacts?

Nowadays, the problem with many hip hop artists’, deals with their derogatory and also aggressive use of toxic lyricism. 

America seemingly has a deeply rooted obsession for violence and toxic lyricism. Thus, when artists spit lines about robbery, mistreatment, or other toxic vocabulary, people tend to chalk it up for what it is – a part of the genre. 

The hip hop genre is diluted by foul language, misrepresentation, and cut-throat practices by nature. The top-tier executives are also a major reason for these toxic tropes. After all, they set the standards and decide what music sells.

Guard yourself against anything toxic in your life, and be aware of repeating lyricism that follows a toxic trend (pexels)

It is evident that violence, machismo and arrogance are three components that can bolster a hip hop artist’s credibility. Of course, actions to match words help for clout purposes.

The problem is still that many artists stand firmly on this idea that, “I actually live this life and everything I talk about is what I have done or will do.”

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The World is Yours

Nobody is actually verifying whether or not these actions are carried out like they are performed within the song. The fact of the matter is, why is it important for hip hop artists to be considered reputable threats in order for them to be taken seriously as a force within their industry?

The answer is simple: records that question or pose a challenge to the status quo are not given financial backing. Thus, the music that people want to hear is actually spoonfed via carefully constructed formula and has been that way for years.

Therefore, artists perpetuate limited means of expression based upon the fact that specific lyrical criterion sells.


With the exceptions of aficionados, rap will never be taken seriously by the masses

It is difficult to improve and change the trajectory of a genre that is embedded with bloodsuckers and leeches. Hip hop is marred with animosity and desensitization. And this makes it incredibly difficult to be heard if you decide to variate from the norm. 

What is the norm? Fast cars, designer clothes, scantily-clad women, big jewels, stoicism, and also a preoccupation with violence.  

Why might violence increase the selling power of a hip hop artist? That is the easiest way to boost your stats and be seen as lyrically credible. 


Artist types 

There is something to be said for the downright disrespectful artist. The one who will say anything or take it intentionally too far as a part of their delivery style. This person does not follow any codes or rules, rather they are trying to be as blatantly disgusting as possible. 

This artist still practically uses their lyrics as a way to spit venom into your face and operates on the most competitive possible platform.

A lot of people tend to flock toward the braggadocious artist because their fortified exterior and tough talk gets us hyped. 

The artist who flaunts their content in your face only to still snatch it right back in an instant. Many people tune into artists with the slick ability to talk trash with toxic lyricism simply because they want to hear the off-the-wall sentiments that person will come up with next.


More artist types: Do they all engage in toxic lyricism?

A well-polished city-slicker that is flyer than you, has more money than you, and has also been more places than you and they know it.

Every word uttered is worth a pretty penny and they also often take a step back in the body of the song to gauge their audience’ jealousy meter? Oh you mad? I thought that you’d be happy I made it.

With the Escape Artist, hip hop creates a fantasy world where we are all allowed to exist in the slightest sense.

This artist is also often elusive in nature, does not make many public appearances, and provides his listeners with the ability to become apart of a space they normally wouldn’t receive admission to.  

Brutal Humilitarian –  A humilitarian is a humble humanitarian. Some artists are just so incredibly honest that there is nothing else you can do but respect them. No toxic lyricism here folks.

Humility is one of my favorite hip hop novelty devices because it represents honor, background, reflection and provides the closest connection between listener and speaker. 

“My pops knew exactly what he did when he made me – Tried to get a nut & he got a nut in – What!”

(Jay Z, Reasonable Doubt)

Many artists sacrifice integrity for the almighty dollar that toxic lyricism presents

Why is it that we are attracted to those who might be deviant? People are ‘fascinated’ with serial killers because it feeds some sort of innate obsession.

It all boils down to one thing: the allure of the illicit. Being a bad boy character and doing things that buck the trend provides quite the emotional appeal to hip hop consumers. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5clkFgVhmj4

The unfortunate part about it is that many artists do not differentiate between reality and descriptive character. Many people are great hip hop artists because they draw a clear distinction between the lyrics and persona they pose in songs versus who they are in real life.

Some people struggle with drawing that line. And let dispositional attitudes taken up for commercial success blur and infiltrate the lines of their on-Earth relationships.


Aspirational endeavors

The reason why hip hop as a whole identifies with individuals like Ralph Lauren is that the genre discerns great similarities between storylines. People coming up within the commercial industry of hip hop and fashion often pursue delusions of grandeur.

These illusions may cloud the vision of some, while it makes the foresight of others absolutely crystal clear. The fact of the matter is: We all want to make it and go from humble beginnings to the upper echelon. 

Many hip hop purists will straight up tell you – there is nothing better than a grimey spitter. One who will cypher for hours, continue to piece words and sounds together and do so in the only way they know – eye for an eye.

There is no replacement for that superior confidence boost feeling that reinforces the notion of man as a conqueror. 

Technology, education, transportation, and telecommunication may all change – but one thing that will always remain the same – the nature of man.

Are we ready for X rated NFTs? A look into the thirst trap

NFTs have taken over the digital world, and crypto porn is prospering for sex work. So the question is: are X rated NFTs the new wave, and can OnlyFans be the place for them to prosper?

As a wise man recently told me, technology is dictating the culture, as opposed to what has conventionally been the other way around.

OnlyFans emerged as a way for individuals to make money directly for their work (often concerning sex). For porn creators, it is all about operating with freedom. But censorship has been an issue in the past on other platforms.

Nothing is stigmatized more than sex work. And so entering the digital art space, the stigma is going to follow. But creators crafting X rated NFTs can work to destigmatize it.

And OnlyFans can find itself as a beacon of hope for creators making crypto porn.


NFT sex work

NFTs are all about owning something hot that no one else has. That is why people sit waiting in lobbies for hours upon hours for these non-fungible tokens like on NBA Top Shot.

So what better way is there for sex workers to make money than by trading an NFT?

@cryptonatrix on Instagram made a little over $1,772 selling an NFT titled “Making Vlad My Bitch.” This NFT is based on Robinhood CEO Vladamir Tenev and the platform’s recent actions with stonks.

The savagery truly knows no bounds. While there are benefits in the crypto community, @cryptonatrix published an article online explaining the hypocrisy of the crypto community concerning crypto porn and NFT sex work.

Contrary to its libertarian roots which might suggest a group that embraces freedom, I’ve found the crypto community is not exactly the most welcoming for sex workers, let alone women in general. 

@cryptonatrix

Crypto porn and X rated NFTs

OnlyFans has revolutionized the porn industry and put the power in the workers hands. NFTs have been revolutionary themselves too. So why can’t X rated NFTs be perfect for the platform?

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@cryptonatrix

Cryptocurrency works as a way for X rated NFTs to be sold because there is no censorship. On certain platforms like Rarible, which is where @cryptonatrix sold her NFT, sex workers have a perfect marketplace to sell their likeness.

The savage crypto porn trader has also created art around other notable billionaires, like Elon Musk.


So why is OnlyFans the place for NFTs?

It all comes down to censorship. To be free of the weights of what you can and can’t post, share, and trade is a liberating feeling. And especially for people like @cryptonatrix, releasing these shackles enables you to create what you want, and fight against the powers that be.

They certainly enjoy creating X rated NFTs concerning billionaires.

And while there are options like Rarible to trade and sell crypto porn artwork, OnlyFans has already situated itself as the platform for sex work.

This means that sex workers can learn more about the cryptocurrency space and how to trade X rated NFTs.

@cryptonatrix

@cryptonatrix has shed an important light on censorship in sex work and what can be done to make sure sex workers get their bread for crypto porn.

Selling an NFT on OnlyFans may become the optimal way for sex workers to earn their livelihood. And NFTs may eventually become the driving force for destigmatizing sex work entirely.

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How to grow weed at home just like a true Jamaican would

So, you have decided to grow your own weed. Jolly good! You will soon be part of a fast-expanding movement. The practice of marijuana cultivation at home is spreading around the globe.

You can grow your cannabis year-round in greenhouses or inside, which you can do all year long. Weed is a hardy plant that can grow in varying climates, all year round, all year.


Cannabis Is Your Friend

Understanding the basics of growing cannabis is a good starting point for your cannabis-growing adventure. 

Note that applying for a medical marijuana card in Utah is the only way to obtain cannabis from pharmacies; patients are not allowed to grow their own marijuana in the state. But if you have a grow license from the state, you can follow these basic steps to become a successful cannabis grower.


Step 1: Choose Your Cannabis Seeds

Cannabis Seeds

You have many options; Indica, ruderalis, Sativa, and several hybrids, all just a click away. Choose according to your personal preferences. Which strains have made your heart dance for joy before? Which strains have given a satisfactory remedy for your medical condition? Starting here seems reasonable.


Step 2: The Basics of Cannabis

The basics are to grow fast and bless you with juicy buds, your beloved cannabis needs.

Lighting: For healthy germination/growth, cannabis needs more than twelve hours of photosynthetic light every twenty hours. Inside, you can control it with timers.

The growing environment: You can use different types of soil in your growers, indoors and outdoors. But the land is not your only choice. There are neutral media, depending entirely on a supply of nutrients, such as vermiculite, perlite, coconut, or rock wool.

Air: For its strength and good gas exchange, cannabis needs ventilated grow environments. Outdoors, your plants will be exposed to the right wind and breeze. Indoors, you will need to provide your plants with a supply of fresh air. You can use a fan or an air extractor for air circulation.

Water: Like other living things, marijuana needs moisture to grow, flourish and perform internal biological functions. Your outdoor plantation will receive everything from nature if you live in an area with regular rainfall.

Temperature: Marijuana is a hardy plant that can survive both heat and cold as well. Even so, the plants can be stressed out and not perform well in extremes. 27 degrees Celsius is the ideal point for vigorous growth.

Nutrients: Like animals or humans, cannabis also needs food to live. A good, crumbly soil rich in compost, minerals, and living organisms, can provide your marijuana plants with sufficient nourishment throughout their life cycle.

Humidity: Whether growing weed indoors or outdoors, well-balanced moisture allows for a healthy environment without pests or mold.


Step 3: Lights for Indoor Growing Cannabis

Culture cabinets: There are sophisticated grow cabinets that are cannabis-friendly and made for ready use. Fans, lights, and separate compartments for the clone, carbon filters, and carbon are all included.

CFL AND LED lights: At the bottom of the spectrum, you have the rudimentary but very powerful CFL lamps (Compact Fluorescent Lamps) or LED panels (Electro-Luminescent Diode), not more than 290 USD. 

Other fluorescent lights, such as T5 lights, come in different spectra for vegetation and flowering and are designed for small spaces.


Step 4: Germination and Young Cannabis Shoots

The seeds only germinate when three specific conditions are present, as explored above. You can plant the seeds in a paper towel, directly into the environment, in rock wool or water.


When Is My Cannabis Mature?

When covered in an abundance of trichomes, the pistils curl up and change color. Orange, mauve, brown, or red can even appear depending on the species. The flower clusters become so swollen that they look like they have been turned upside down.

There are signs that your hard work is beginning to pay off. For a more broadened cannabinoid profile, harvest when the trichomes are 60-80% amber.

Prison massacre in Ecuador uncovers corruption and more

On Tuesday, February 23, 2021, 79 prisoners from 3 of Ecuador’s maximum-security prisons were slaughtered to death. The Ecuadorian prison massacre comes after the assassination of Jose Luiz Zambrano Gonzales, leader of Los Chonero the biggest narco cartels in the country.

The “unprecedented” event, not only exposed the power of prison gangs but also shocked the entire nation.

Along with disturbing videos of the murders, came a message threatening Coronel Orlando Jácome — Deputy Director of the National Service for Comprehensive Care for Adults Deprived of Liberty and Teenage Offenders (“Snai”).

Coronel Orland Jácome presented his resignation on February 24, 2021. More than 17 million people are now looking for answers as to what happened.


In Ecuador’s largest-ever prison massacre, what happened?

On Tuesday morning, at 7:12 an emergency call from Guayaquil’s prison was received. Followed by an emergency call from Cuenca and Latagcunga at 9 am and 10 am respectively. Yet, the police arrived only to find blocked doors and arson that blocked their way.

Meanwhile, inside the prison, videos were taken of the horrific events that were happening. Explicit videos of inmates being decapitated, hearts on palms still beating, others dismembered with chainsaws. All while others played soccer with the heads of the victims.

No guards nearby. No alarms.

Wednesday of that same week, it was confirmed that 37 prisoners died in Guayaquil prison, 8 in Latacunga and 34 in Cuenca. The three prisons jointly hold more than two-thirds of the country’s entire inmate population.

After careful investigations, it was concluded that Ecuador’s prison massacre began after the leader of the biggest narco cartels was killed in December 2020, leaving a vacant seat to seize power and control over prisons and the narcotic roads of Ecuador.


The Choneros

Juan Luiz Zambrano Gonzales, also known as JL, was the leader of Los Choneros, Ecuador’s biggest drug Cartel.

The Choneros are in charge of all the logistics that go into transporting drugs from one country to another. They are in total control of Ecuador’s routes, hence making them a valuable asset to major drug cartels like the Sinaloa Cartel.

Not only were they powerful for their route control, they were powerful for their quantity. The Choneros had over 5,000 members spread across the entire country.

The problem arises when The Choneros try to uphold the control of Guayaquil’s port — the key to drug trafficking routes.

However, once The Choneros tried to establish their power in Guayaquil, they encounter resistance from Los Lagartos, the gang who was in control of Guayaquil’s drug logistics.

By this time, JL had already created a name for himself. Not only had he gained control over almost all trafficking routes in Ecuador, he controlled all three prisons mention earlier as well. He became respected and feared among his cartel and others — no one could dare to touch him.

But, Los Largartos were not letting JL take control of yet another trafficking route. And, on December 28, 2020, JL was killed in the middle of a mall in the city of Manta.

However, it is said that Los Largartos did not dispose of the resources to kill such a prominent figure. Authorities, therefore, suggest that they had made an agreement with the Sinaloa Cartel Leader, the one and only Chapo.

Another suggestion is that there is a revolution happening within The Choneros themselves. It is said that a new generation of Choneros is trying to seize control over the entire organization. Thus, partnering with Los Largatos and helping with the assassination of their own leader.


Framing Correa

Once JL out of the picture, they had to get rid of JL’s predecessors: “Junior” and Tito (the same guys in charge of keeping control of all three prisons). However, that never happened, both of them received information about the intent of their murder ahead of time. And, just in time when arms were infiltrating to prisons for their murder, the riot started.

This not only uncovers the power and terror that these prison gangs are able to uphold over the police but also pointed to further evidence that Ecuador’s ex-president might have been involved.

After the riots, an investigation was opened on the matter. Evidence was found that suggested that Ecuador’s former President had, in fact, close connections with El Chapo Guzman (the main suspect behind Ecuador’s prison massacre).

It happens that, Telmo Castro, a retired Army captain had a close relationship with Rafael Correa. He was sentenced to prison after being framed as the main representative of El Chapo in Ecuador.

Later, evidence found in his blackberry proved the relationship between the former president and José Antonio Aguilar Orozco, Darwin Stalin Gómez Vélez, and Edgar Fernando Sandoval Puga who were later found guilty of drug trafficking.

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Correa smiles with José Antonio Aguilar Orozco, Darwin Stalin Gómez Vélez and Edgar Fernando Sandoval Puga. (Photo found in Telmo Castro’s BlackBerry)

It is important to note that the events come during a sensible time in Ecuador. The country is currently undergoing political elections where Correa’s political party is trying to re-take control over the country.

Still, whether that frames him as an accomplice of all the Ecuador’s prison massacre is yet to be discovered.

Who are the photographers capturing strippers the right way?

Photography of strippers is not about props, fantasies, or blank canvases to project ideas upon. Rather, the best photographers of strippers are the ones that capture them as humans, not sexual objects.

Some photographers double as strippers, and vice versa. And some just have a knack for covering these dancers in their purest lights. Whatever the case, we examined a list of stripper photographers that just get it, and their empathy and understanding shines through in their photographs.

You’ve seen TikTok’s and Instagram posts of strippers in clubs, on poles, on stages. And now you may want to capture the world of glitter, neon lights, and skin yourself.

Read on to find out what pitfalls to avoid, what things to consider, and how to highlight the humans and not the sex. 


First things to consider with stripper photography

First thing’s first, make sure the club you’re shooting the stripper in allows photography.

Many clubs don’t, some clubs do. You can easily find this out by looking up the club’s website, giving them a call, or stopping by. 

Then, even if the club happens to allow photography, depending on if you’re planning to use the photographs for commercial or professional use rather than just as an IG story, you will need to talk to the dancers and other club workers.

To use the dancer’s images you will need a release form; make sure they’re all down to be on camera. Strippers are not your props to use for a photography project; respect their autonomy and freedom to say no. 

Once those practical issues are solved, we can get into the juicier bits. 


The keys to being a good stripper photographer

The main thing to consider with stripper photography is: how do you portray them in a way that is fully acknowledging their humanness and not just a sexy depiction of a naked body?

To get a glimpse of how to answer this, we can look at the work of past photographers that tackled this question. 

One of the most noteworthy stripper photographers is Susan Meiselas. While her work usually centers around war, she also spent time photographing strippers and dominatrixes.

In her projects “Carnival Strippers” (1972-1975) and “Pandora’s Box” (1995), she is one of the first to explore these often-stigmatized worlds. 

In a 1998 review of Meiselas’ work, Margarett Loke writes for the New York Times that “Meiselas insists on seeing people as people, no matter where they find themselves.”

It’s this lack of judging, this focus on the person in the profession rather than the profession itself, that makes for powerful images of strippers. 


More professionals weigh in

The best photography of a stripper is intimate.

It shows not just the dancer’s stage presence and acrobatics, but also the glances in the mirror before their shift, the private moment they have with a fellow dancer, the way the light hits their face as they enter the stage. 

A look at Rachel Lena Esterline’s work will show just that.

The San-Francisco-based photographer has been capturing the lives of strippers since March 2014. She has been documenting her journey into the world on her Instagram and website. 

“In the beginning the girls were cautious,” Esterline said in an interview with Independent.

She added “…but they trust me. We trust each other. When you’re in, you’re in.”

Scrolling through her website the projects, most labeled by name of the women in the shots, feel casual and comfortable. The shots show the women in their own space, lounging, dancing, existing. The fact that they’re strippers is never judged or questioned. 

In an interview with Forbes, Esterline said: “Moving beyond judgment is essential to what I make. I’ve learned, and continue to learn, how to let go of potentially harmful, reprocessed beliefs about the industry.”


It all starts with clearing your head of all judgment

Letting go of judgment includes not judging the choices of the women or questioning their reasons for being in the profession. It includes not objectifying them.

The other side of this coin is to not romanticize them either. Yes, they look like goddesses on stage, in neck-breaking heels and halos from spots that light their most flattering features but that’s not all that they are. 

Erika Langley, a photojournalist took it a step further in getting to know the real women for her project Lusty Ladies, which began in 1992.

She describes it on her website:

“When I approached the Lusty Lady, a peep show run by women in downtown Seattle, and asked if I could photograph their dancers, they said I’d have to become one. So I did.” 

Erika Langley

By becoming a dancer herself, Langley gained even more access to the women she was photographing. Now, she was not just documenting their intimate lives but living them with the dancers. 

Ivar Wigan is another photographer who dove into the culture to document the strippers and their lifestyle as honestly as possible.

For his project “The Gods,” the Scottish photographer spend six months exploring the street culture and stripper scene of Atlanta, New Orleans, and Miami.

He avoided photography for the first eight weeks that he was there as he wanted to be fully immersed and accepted before starting the documentation.

“For me, making the series was about being part of it, and showing it from their side and avoiding the politics,” Wigan said in an interview with Hunger when asked about the strippers specifically. 


Photography of a stripper in principle is not much different than photography of anything else. Don’t judge, and pay attention

So, what are the takeaways for photography of a stripper? First off, don’t judge. That is the cornerstone of photography in any subject.

Then, don’t rush. Take your time to really get to know the people you’re photographing. Make sure they consent to be photographed. 

Finally, photograph the dancers as people. Not props, not fantasies, not blank slates to project your ideas on. And most of all, don’t be a creep

I May Destroy You is the newest Black art snubbed at the Golden Globes

The British drama television series I May Destroy You is the most recent piece of Black art blatantly snubbed at the Golden Globes, and fans (and even rival show writers) are not happy about it.

Award shows have suffered a significant loss of credibility in recent years, with #OscarsSoWhite, and well-documented snubbing trends running rampant through the season.

This year’s Golden Globe nominations are thus no different, with their nomination of Emily in Paris for Best Comedy and omission of Michaela Cole’s I May Destroy You from the roster.

Michaela Cole (left) plays lead character Arabella in her show “I May Destroy You” (Photograph: Natalie Seery/BBC/Various Artists Ltd and FALKNA)

Even “rival” show writers see the disparity

In response to the nominations, Emily in Paris writer Deborah Copaken wrote an article. It tells you everything you need to know about where she stands on the matter:
“I’m a writer on Emily in Paris. I May Destroy You deserved a Golden Globe nomination.”

Copaken goes on to defend the show’s brilliance. And express her shock that the committee snubbed such a culturally impactful work like I May Destroy You.

She is also not naive to what it tells us about the award show, and award shows in general.

“That I May Destroy You did not get one Golden Globe nod is not only wrong, it’s what is wrong with everything.”

Deborah Copaken for The Guardian, 2021.

The article describes how this incident of racially-charged negligence reflects greater trends of disparity in everything from writing rooms to police brutality.

Lily Collins, who plays Emily herself in Copaken’s show, demonstrated less cultural awareness. She just posted a selfie with her new puppy in celebration. 


I May Destroy You genuinely opens up extremely important conversations, and deserved a Gloden Globe nod

Michaela Cole wrote, directed, and starred in her critically acclaimed show I May Destroy You. The show touched a cultural nerve for its open address of sexual assault and daring comedic approach to heavy subject matter.

TV writers internationally have come out in praise of I May Destroy You as a show. Akilah Green said, it “sent almost every writer I’ve talked to about it back to the lab.”

Cole began writing the show while filming her breakthrough Chewing Gum, after being assaulted herself on a night out with friends.

The process took two and a half years that the writer described as “hard, but cathartic.” It resulted in a show that is equal parts real and sensitive. 

Cole poses for Vulture, 2020.

Black artwork being snubbed by award shows is not rare, but it is a problem

Countless voices in the industry also share Copaken’s outcry and disbelief.

Most notably, Entertainment Weekly published an article listing other outstanding performances in addition to I May Destroy You that were omitted from the Golden Globes’ nominations, noting that – unsurprisingly – they were all delivered by black actors.

The Golden Globes’ committee is perpetually stuck in the past. But shows like I May Destroy You offer us a glimpse into the exciting future of television. 

Model horror stories

Model horror stories that make us appreciate the job so much more


Horror stories of models on set make us quiver, as modeling is already an extremely vulnerable job. Learning of the gross injustices models have to deal with from toxic photographers only adds to our appreciation for them.

The job is not all glitz and glamour. A lot of people would be surprised to know that trying to break into the modeling industry is a lot harder than just looking good.

Seasoned models and influencers know that the modeling industry can be tough and has its dark side, too. Reading about the horrors that can happen to models, especially young girls trying to get their start in the industry, teaches lessons about what to look out for.


A toxic photographer conducts himself inappropriately

After being offered four hundred dollars for a 3-hour lingerie shoot at 19, model and reddit user rebelwithacausex made an effort to reach out to others who worked with the photographer prior to the shoot. A smart, safe move.

Many of us know that there are too many toxic photographers out there. They use their cameras as an excuse to get models vulnerable.

So, rebelwithacausex was asked to come to a hotel, where the shoot was to be shot. She also made sure to bring a male friend along to the shoot, in case things got weird.

And weird they got.

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The photographer, named Jay, answered the door wearing nothing but a white robe. Even worse, he seemed to have an erection.

rebelwithacausex wrote:

“FIRST RED FLAG! HOW INAPPROPRIATE TO BE ANSWERING THE DOOR WITH A ROBE ON AND A HALF CHUB. I immediately starting having a panic attack. He greeted me and apologized for being in a robe saying he just got out the shower.”

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Gross and lewd encounters occur when models are expected to be at their most vulnerable

Jay offered her champagne, probably because she seemed nervous. The model then continued:

“…as he was taking my picture I could see his creepy boner rising. That’s when I got dressed and freaked out on him. I demanded my pay and told him he was gross and unprofessional, I felt betrayed because he told me he wasn’t like that and the models confirmed he was professional or should I say not a serial killer. I left the hotel room crying while my guy friend threatened the dude on our way out. As a woman I felt repulsed that this man was getting a boner, half naked and making advances toward me, was getting horny and was a genuine creep.”

Sexual harassment is unfortunately common among female models and influencers, especially at their most vulnerable. And even often photographers or producers are the perpetrators.

Luckily, the model made sure to spread as much information online on modeling forums about this creep as she could. And our appreciation for models telling their harrowing stories cannot be stressed enough.

My level of appreciation for models, having to deal with creeps and egomaniacs all the time just skyrocketed.


A producer’s gross affinity rears its ugly head

Model and influencer Natalia Taylor confides in her viewers about all of the ups and downs in modeling.

Being a model since the age of 12, she’s been hospitalized and severely injured during shoots, but in one video entitled “DISTURBING PHOTOSHOOT: Modeling Horror Story,” she shares what she considers her “weirdest” shoot.

She describes getting her start at the famous John Casablancas modeling school. The school hosts paid sessions where the students could pay to “get comfortable in front of the camera,” Taylor said.

Though Taylor was just starting as a fourteen-year-old, she laughs looking back at the cringe-worthy wardrobe the stylists gave her to work with.

Being uncomfortable and feeling like a fish out of water is normal for people who have no experience in front of the camera. “It gets better, ladies and gentlemen. This is where it all begins,” Taylor said.

At the beginning of the video, Natalia Taylor alludes to a scandal about infamous Nickelodeon producer Dan Schneider and his affinity for underaged girls and feet. Taylor chuckles, describing her uncomfortable experience with the photoshoot turning into what she called a “foot photoshoot.”

“This looks like this would be on the cover of a foot fetish site,” Taylor says about a photo of herself where the bottoms of her feet are shown.


Natalia Taylor tells another, even more harrowing model horror story

In another of Natalia Taylor’s videos entitled “the photoshoot I regret.- modeling horror story,” she speaks on the seriousness of sexual harassment against models.

Taylor tells the story of meeting a photographer she enjoyed working with in the past for a test photoshoot.

“You should never assume that you know who you’re working with on a personal level,” Taylor said. She explained that it was her first mistake.

Natalia Taylor was around seventeen or eighteen years old at the time, and the photographer’s suggestion to do an underwear shoot was another red flag.

“I tried my best to communicate to the photographer that I wanted these images to be portrayed in a very elegant, classy, sophisticated, high-fashion perception,” Taylor said.

She didn’t want to cross the line of making the photos pornographic. To her dismay, once she got into the studio, she noticed there was a mattress laying on the floor, which turned out to be the photographer’s full-time living space. Being younger, she was more naive.


The horror story continues…

First, she was asked to model laying on the bed. Then, the photographer brought out a leather BSDM harness, asking her to model it for his friend’s website. At the time, she did not know what it was.

“I didn’t want to cause issues, I just wanted to go with the flow.”

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Towards the end of the shoot, the photographer asked Taylor to remove her top. Taylor described idolizing the Victoria’s Secret Angels models, and even seeing a high-end photoshoot that one of them did topless.

“In my mind, the answer was clear: no.”

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Taylor explained that the photographer was using classic manipulation tactics by chipping away at the boundaries she’d tried to make clear – taking photos on the mattress, using the harness, and now taking her top off.

Taylor even went through the trouble of posing while covering herself, but that wasn’t enough for the photographer, who only snapped shots of Taylor when she exposed while switching her arms to cover herself.

“I sort of closed myself off to the world after that happened because I felt dirty, I felt unclean, I felt like something bad had happened to me.”

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Eventually, the photographer uploaded the images to his personal photography website.

Finally, Taylor makes sure that viewers understand that the photographer would not have legally had to take the photos down if she had signed a release form.

Taylor has other videos sharing horror stories about modeling, like “My agent was a predator,” and “this photographer injured me for a photoshoot. I have footage.”

Luckily, there are several videos where Taylor explains different aspects of modeling.


A modeling horror story can happen to anyone

For aspiring models, Natalia Taylor and other brave people have shared their harrowing horror stories, and their experiences should be listened to closely.

Because a horror story can happen to anyone. Photographers and producers who have power over models sometimes use that power for nefarious means.

In search of a big break, models are at their most vulnerable. But models are also some of the most courageous people walking the Earth.

Hopefully, these horror stories will give you an appreciation for what models go through to get to where they are.

tiktok stripper

TikTok strippers tell us what’s up with the new trend and more…

The relationship between TikTok and strippers that use the platform as a means of livelihood is a fragile one, with trends relating to sex work only amplifying the distrust at play.

“They add warnings on the bottom of my videos that say things like, ‘the action in this video could result in serious injury,'” Sky Hopscotch, @skyhopscotch on TikTok, writes about the platform in an email to Kulture Hub. 

“It hurts us. It damages our online presence and foot traffic to our other socials, and veils the natural reality of sex work,” she adds. 

@skyhopscotch

Stop the unnecessary censorship of sex workers on TikTok.

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Debunking stripper myths while I water my plants. 🌱✨ ##striptok ##whatyoushouldknow ##letsbehonest

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The fragile relationship between TikTok and strippers who use the platform, explained

Hopscotch is an exotic dancer based in Iowa. She uses TikTok to talk about her experience as a stripper.

With almost 80k followers, her videos about “strip club etiquette,” “pole dancing 101,” and “how to make money at the club” work to highlight that very reality of sex work she believes the app tries to erase. 

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Strip club etiquette. What to know on your first night. ##striptok ##advice

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Hopscotch is one of many sex workers on the platform using the hashtag “striptok” to connect to fellow exotic dancers and sex workers. Similarly, she is also one of many experiencing TikTok’s restrictive new community guidelines

In mid-December 2020, TikTok released its updated terms of service. One of the updates directly aimed at sex workers on the app. The rule prohibits “content that depicts, promotes, or glorifies sexual solicitation.”

It is telling of TikTok’s view on sex work that this rule is sectioned under “sexual exploitation.”

In a time when more sex workers are turning to the world wide web for income and community, social media platforms are narrowing rules and regulations. This makes it near impossible for sex workers to have an online presence and reach their audience. 


This stripper has found solace in TikTok, especially during the pandemic

Hopscotch has been in the strip club industry for over seven years as an independent contractor. Iowa did not close down its clubs, she said.

However, Hopscotch hasn’t been dancing since the pandemic, because a person with high COVID risk is living with her.

“The dancers aren’t required to wear masks, and they don’t. Neither do the customers,” Hopscotch explained.

“Our clubs here are touch-friendly. So it’s already a very intimate, up-close, and personal job.”

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It’s not all a trend: Hopscotch makes sure to explain to young women the realities of stripping and sex work

While Hopscotch, self-proclaimed “stripper fairy godmother,” hasn’t tried online sex work, the internet has provided her with a sense of community.

Her videos, which regularly trend and reach more than 15k views on TikTok, focus on the reality of clubs and provide useful tips for those starting out.

“I try to educate young women who are going into the strip club industry,” Hopscotch said.

“We talk about the cons of stripping, tips, how to get started in the industry, what they should know before going in, and what a typical night entails. TikTok creators glamorize the strip club industry by flashing wads of cash in their videos, but what they’re not sharing, is the hardships that are associated with dancing.”

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Is your life falling apart? Can’t pay your rent? What you should bring your first night as an exotic dancer. ##striptok ##funny ##exoticdancer

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The comment sections on her videos are almost like online forums.

Questions about stripping flood in like “how do you spin on a pole?” “can you wear whatever you want?” and even “can you explain taxes?”


TikTok makes it difficult to maneuver the platform and find sustainable income

Kennedy Spaulding, @soswagkenny on TikTok, worked in clubs as an exotic dancer before the pandemic hit. She then turned to online sex work in 2020.

“I tried to continue dancing, but the market was oversaturated as a lot of individuals were left jobless and sought out sex work as a lucrative alternative. OnlyFans was booming and I will say, the rewards were plenty,” she wrote. 

While Spaulding doesn’t exclusively post about sex work, she has still noticed TikTok’s restrictions and trends towards censorship. “TikTok’s new policy has somewhat effected [sic] my online presence in the sense that I wasn’t able to promote sex work,” Spaulding said about the new rules.

“Still, I posted all my unfiltered content that I normally would, and it resulted in being shadowbanned.”


Spaulding has since moved away from online sex work to pursue a career in art, which she said she is most passionate about. In her Etsy store “Playswithknifes” she sells resin accessories.

The glittery rolling trays, ashtrays, and recently added “love” paddles are filled with glitter and a y2k sensibility. She uses her TikTok to show new additions to the Etsy store.

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shop for these on my etsy !! ##420friendy ##etsy ##supportsmallbusiness ##smallbusinesscheck ##fyp ##resin ##art

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To promote the store, which TikTok’s trends and new rules currently also limit, the platform will need to change.

“I believe TikTok and other platforms could improve for sex workers by being more inclusive of advertising,” Spaulding said.

“They could do so by not censoring links or deleting videos that promote the industry.” She adds: “as long as the actual content itself is censored, or shown to the right audience, I see no reason we sex workers shouldn’t be able to promote our content!”

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The stigma around sex work and stripping on TikTok must be combatted

Hopscotch also has ideas on how to improve the online experience for sex workers.

“Rather than banning creators for sex work, what TikTok could be doing is implementing creator options to their platform that allows us to restrict our TikTok audience by age.”

@skyhopscotch
@skyhopscotch

TODAYS LESSON: TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF BABIES. 🧚‍♀️✨ ##positivity ##striptok ##lifelessons ##fairygodmother ##SwitchTheChobaniFlip ##fyp

♬ original sound – SkyHopscotch

She’s also adamant about non-glamorizing sex work. “I cannot fathom the younger generation idealizing the sex industry,” Hopscotch wrote.

“TikTok would be very wise to implement age restriction software, to limit children from seeing what us sex workers are posting.”

@skyhopscotch

She knows that the sex industry isn’t going anywhere. “But there is absolutely no reason that children should be looking up to the lifestyle. Many of us do this because we HAVE to do this job, because of systematic inequality,” she said.

@skyhopscotch

Welcome to the drop kick Murphy’s. ##guessmyzodiacsign ##zodiac ##alt

♬ Guess your zodiac – Jojo Colón

Right now, it looks like online platforms are only shrinking the spaces available to sex workers.

With not only TikTok but also Instagram restricting the content of adult entertainers and the introduction of more internet censorship laws such as SISEA, the internet is seemingly becoming less and less sex-positive.

Luckily, there are movements working against this censorship. With sex work discourse flourishing on Twitter, and petitions against further regulations being signed by the thousands, we might get back onto the free informational highway the internet was intended to be.


Stop the Unnecessary Censorship of Sex Workers On TikTok

Photography horror stories that will shake any photographer to their core

Horror stories in photography and modeling are like old fables. You’re captivated by them, you are left thinking about them once they’re finished, and you never truly expect them to happen to you.

But horror stories in photography, modeling, or on any set, carry an extra sense of frightful intrigue because they can indeed happen to anyone. Avoiding disastrous horror stories as a photographer requires extreme patience, attention to detail, and yes, also luck.

Being a photographer can be rewarding, but it also comes with its fair share of difficulties: difficult clients who can’t seem to explain what exactly they don’t like about your photos, furry or young subjects who can’t sit still, and inexperienced and difficult models.

Here are some photographers who shared their horror stories of photo shoots gone wrong.


A model horror story that will scare even the most fearless photographers

Photography horror stories can sometimes occur out of nowhere. Sometimes, well-meaning models can end up causing mistakes that can then cost thousands to correct.

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Reddit user ZapGaffigan wrote:

“The subject [asked] if they could ‘help’ as I unloaded gear and [picked] up my backpack without asking…which was unzipped and my precious 70-200 F2.8 fell out onto the concrete taking a perfect shot on the mount end. Force a smile and say ‘no worry, they’re tough.’ Not that tough.”

Reddit user ZapGaffigan

ZapGaffigan didn’t write about how much damage was done to the lens, but hopefully, he and the model both learned a valuable lesson about how horror stories can occur from the smallest (and even well-intentioned) mistakes.


A landscape photography horror story where the photographer got more than they bargained for

Exploring and landscape photography go hand in hand. Sometimes you can come across some pretty startling scenes.

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User mavric91 wrote:

“Recently went on a road trip to Utah… Long story short, we decided to explore down the road a little farther [and] found a downed motorcycle.

Its rider was suffering from extreme heat stroke and dehydration. He was foaming at the mouth, hardly breathing, and unresponsive. I did what I could, but he pretty much died in my arms.

I had to race about forty minutes out of the canyon to find enough service to call 911. So, after waiting 3 hours for every one to show up, fill out reports, and after a helicopter landed on our campsite, we had had enough. It was dark, the bugs were atrocious, and we were tired. We drove out and got a hotel. I never even took a single picture, not even on my phone.”

This story goes to show that photography horror stories can happen to anybody, and they can also happen at any time.

Not only was mavric91 not able to get his work done for the day, but they were shaken emotionally to their core by witnessing such a violent travesty. Stay safe out there fam.


Photo shoot horror stories take place at sporting events too

Most people are probably worried about rogue balls flying at them when shooting at sporting events.

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User StupidTinyFatUnicorn’s photography horror story is still quite unexpected.

“[I was] shooting soccer with a 300mm f2.8, one hecking heavy lens. I set the monopod on my shoulder like this, I take a few steps. I heard a horrifying crack followed by the sound of a $6000 lens bouncing on the concrete. The lens ripped the metal mount off the camera and became stuck to the lens mount.”

Maybe it was just a sign shooting wasn’t in the cards for StupidTinyFatUnicorn that day, and also, that they should be more prepared for disaster next time.


A horror story that is frightening in any situation, photoshoot or not

Everyone knows not to mess with pregnant women. Photographers, and models also, certainly do. Still, sometimes there is nothing you can do.

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User cl0ckw0rkheart describes their nightmare photography experience with a pregnant subject:

“I started out in a commercial portrait studio. More often than not, I worked alone. My boss was a raging alcoholic and felt like everything was OK as long as I made sales. Telling a customer no was out of the question. I was in college and needed a paying job.

I have so many stories, but a very pregnant, very emotional woman comes to mind. This woman took off her clothes for her maternity shoot and tried to use my muslin as some sort of flowy drape on her naked body.

She had this picture from Pinterest that 1. Had been taken outdoors around dawn/dusk. 2. Had been lightroomed to hell and back. I had to bleach the muslins. I hate Pinterest.”

Hopefully, cl0ckw0rkheart learned a valuable lesson. Namely, that there are some boundaries as a photographer that need to be set.


Photography horror stories come in all shapes and sizes

Photography horror stories can take place on a photo shoot. They can take place on a quiet road. Photography horror stories can even occur when a model tries to do the right thing.

The point is, while these stories are extremely captivating, they are also inherently real.

Hiccups and obstacles come up when you least expect them, and still it is your job as a photographer or worker on set to be prepared to roll with the punches.